An abusive relationship is a slow killer of healthy relationship if not handle earlier.
Some ladies don't see the early warning signs of an abusive relationship, because they are blinded with love.
Love will give you joy and happiness, but abusive will put your life in danger. A lot of women has dead of chronic abusive relationship because they ignore the warning signs.
Love is sweet and beautiful, but not to break your soul and body because of abusiveness, I'm talking to ladies.
One of the things I don't do is to abusive a woman i claim i love you, that's why i dislike men or women that abusive their partner in a relationship.
I have a female friend whom the husband intentionally abusive her, though not consistent but a lot of warning signs of an abusive relationship because of some certain reasons which I will list them to you.
Someone will say, oh but men don't experience any abusiveness in their relationship more than women. Who say so, men also experience abuse in their relationship or marriage, especially when he can't afford to pay the bills of the woman he's dating or getting married to. He's own abusive is too much, because some women, I mean some women don't care about his feelings, she can insult him any day, any time without remorse.
What Are The Warning Signs Of An Abusive Relationship
Some of this warning signs is where some ladies are ignorant of, they signs as a mainly attitude of their partner.
This are the following warning signs of an abusive relationship.
1. Unnecessary Angry and Shouting
Some of ladies don't know that one of the things that began in an abusive relationship is unnecessary angry and shouting, that results in an abusive relationship. When you are dating or marrying a man who has anger issues is a serious issue, and can lead to an abusive relationship.
2. I Will Slap You
That statement from him or her is serious warning signs of an abusive relationship, and you shouldn't ignore it. If care not taking, it's result to hitting you one day.
Remember, he or she has made that statement, and it is in his or her mind to do it one day, intentionally or unintentionally, expect it one day.
Have never told my wife or my girlfriend during my past relationship that i will slap her, that's very wrong and harsh statement from a man or woman who claims gentility.
3. Rejecting Your Food or Gifts In Anger
This is called emotional abuse, and some men or women see it as nothing.
For Men: In Africa, if a man reject the food of his wife in anger without reasons consistently, it can divorce or break up.
Rejecting a food of your partner can break her down. It's kill the love she has for you, it put tears and unhappy in her heart, it will never help the relationship or marriage to last longer. Stop rejecting her food, it makes her happy when you are enjoying and appreciation her food.
For Women: Rejecting the gifts of your partner is very wrong, and it makes a man feels you are ungrateful and ingrate. It break him down.
Men love presenting a good and beautiful gifts to their wife or girlfriend but hate it when they reject it, trust me, it can results to break up. why, because he's not happy or safe in the relationship, he's mind will keep telling him, you might cheating on him when someone buys more special gifts to you. Learn to appreciate the little he offer for you as a gifts.
Another emotional abuse in a relationship is publicly insulting your partner, that's not good. It brings mockery and shameful to their face, that's so height of emotional abuse in a relationship, and a serious warning signs that your futuristic relationship with him or her will be full of abusiveness. The solution is for you to control your temper or your words when talking to each other in public or private.
Why Do Some Men Or Women Stay In An Abusive Relationship
I believe this question is what people always ask when a man or woman dies in an abusive relationship without looking into the early warning signs.
Do you know abusiveness can cause mental disorder or chronic depression if not stay away from that relationship.
This are the reasons why some men or women stay in an abusive relationship.
1. What People Will Say
What people will say if i quit this relationship or marriage has kept some men or women stay in an abusive relationship. They don't care about their safety, health or life, they only care about what people will say.
Remember if you dies or something serious happen to you in that abusive relationship because you ignore the warning signs, they will only sympathize with you for a while, and life continues. Please, take a serious decision to safe your life and future, go to see a good therapist that can you walk away from the abusive relationship or marriage.
2. The Sacrifices That Has Been Made
Some men or women stay in abusive relationship or marriage because he or she has made a alot of sacrifices. What types of sacrifice, like time spend, maybe he or she has been in the relationship for months or years, reject other good man or woman because of love, they sees the warning signs as nothing serious.
See those sacrifices as a lesson to learn in a relationship or marriage.
Solution When You See Those Warning Signs Of An Abusive Relationship
One of the solution is to voice out to your partner, to understand you how deeply you are scared and not happy with the way the relationship is going. Let him or her knows you love and care but this and that is not what you are expecting to occur.
Another solution is to seek help from therapist or someone close to their partner to talk to your partner of his or her behavior towards you.
This is the best solution to avert the signs of futuristic abuse in your relationship or marriage.
In Conclusion
Whenever you are committed to any relationship, always stick to the warning signs of any form of abusive that is about or occurring in your relationship, so that you will take a quick decision earlier before if feel time cheated, and began to regret entering into the relationship at the beginning.
If you are abusing your partner through the listed signs, please stop it, so as to have a perfect, healthy and respectful relationship.
The best way to safe yourself from the early warning signs of an abusive relationship is separation
NB: don't force to change your abusive partner when he or she is not ready to change.
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