How To Have Perfect Relationship

How To Have A Perfect Relationship
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    Relationship is the act of love, understanding, acceptable, commitment and protect.

  Having a perfect relationship is one of thing lacking today in our relationship, because of the ideology and mentality we pre-assumed and add in our relationship, making it look like we don't care the outcome of the relationship. No relationship will be 100% perfection until you make it 80% perfect.

   Listen, no relationship will start perfect if you have already imperfect it in your mind, because every mistakes and faults count, whether is a lie or not. No believe no understanding. 

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10 Tips That Will Help You Have A Perfect Relationship

    This tips on how to have a perfect relationship will help you to restructure and build your mentality and attitude towards your partner or even colleagues.

1. Don't Judge Someone Accepting Them.

  Judging or concluding mindset before you accept him or her shouldn't come into your mind. Yes, I understand, because of your past experience, that's why you first judge on someone before accepting them. 
   When I talk about judging before accepting, I'm talking about analysing his or her past situations, even when they say something about him or her without investigating or ask questions. Don't judge their dressing, complexion or speech, you can teach him or her. No body is perfect. You can make him or her fitting in that position or lifestyle you want from him or her.
  Never start a relationship by judging the person you claim to love, because it will never make it to be perfect but complicated.

2. Come From A Space Of Contributing, Not Demanding

     90% of the relationship have experience before I got married, comes from a space of demanding, instead of contributing. Demanding time, commitment, (especially finance) not contributing ideas, understanding and good character.

   Every perfect relationship has a space of contributions, to perfect and strengthen the relationship without broken or regret.

   As a man or woman, who is eagerly and preparing his or her self to have a perfect relationship should be ready to always contribute in a positive and reasonable way, not demand.

   Let your boyfriend or girlfriend feel happy and joyful when he or she sees you, not unhappy because of the high demand you place on her or him without contributing.


3. Choose Your Words Carefully.

     Words are powerful, it can kill and destroy, I mean emotionally.

  Choose your words carefully while talking to your him or her, even in your anger moment. (Don't forget to read the article on how to deal with anger issues on my previous post).

   If you want to have a perfect relationship, choose your words carefully, how you communicate when issues arises.

As a man, mind how you talk to her. Women are too emotional, they stored words in their memory for many years, even if she has forgiven you, she will not forget.

As a woman, men don't like disrespectful and talkative woman, a woman who can talk anyhow without choosing her words. Learn to talk respectful and calmness. It will perfect your relationship.


4. Respect Each Other

     Respect each other, both private and public.
   When a relationship lacks respect, it causes imperfect and boring. It add no value and seriousness in it. It will always cause misunderstanding and separation.
   To build and have a perfect relationship, respect each other, in words and attitude.
   Respect should the center of perfection in your relationship.

5. Give Each Other Space.

    When there is issues of imperfection and misunderstanding, give each other space to think and correct him or her self. It will help to perfect the relationship. Sometimes he or she is not a good mood to talk, give him or her a space for awhile to absolve the issues.

6. A Lady should Never Step On The Ego Of Her Man.

  Every man has ego in him, they don't want to be controlled by any woman.
   Why a lot of broken relationship today is because of the way women wants to control their man.
  A man is always the head of the family, so stepping in the ego can cause the end of the relationship. It will not help to have a perfect relationship.
  As a lady, you are made to help, not to control in a relationship.
   Love and respect him, you have win his heart, and he can do anything for you.

7. A Man Should Never Step On The Emotion Of A Woman.

   Stepping on the emotions of a woman can cause you pain as a man. It can destroy you. A woman can break and disorganize you without you seen it from the beginning. 
   A woman can love and respect you so much but when you step on her emotions, she began to lose that love and respect she have for.
   Caring, love, commitment and communication is what every woman wants. Don't break them down.

8. Stay Centered

     Stay positive, no lie, false accusations and quarrel should exist among the relationship. It will never bring a perfect relationship.
  Let her or him be your priority. Be focus and happy with your partner.

9. Don't Make The Other Person Feel Guilty.

  One of the things have notice in some of the relationship is making the other person feel guilty, by remind him or her the past mistakes. Especially when there is conflict. It shouldn't be so. 
  He or she explain the past, for you to be aware, not for you to always make her feel guilty. Let the secret remain secret, not exposing it. It will not help the relationship.

10. Be Yourself

   Be yourself by maintaining your status. 
 some relationship stop existing from two person that claim the love each other because one refuse to be him or her self from the beginning, by lying about his or her status. 
    I never over hype myself in my relationship journey before I got married. I always state my status for me to have a perfect and understandable relationship.

In Conclusion

   There is different between relationship and perfect relationship.
   Relationship is an agreement between two person who love each other and ready to build up.
  Perfect relationship is the process to build a futuristic family and longevity home.
     To have a perfect relationship with your partner, you need to build understanding, communication, honesty and genuine love.
  

  

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