Lovely Couple
Many ladies don't know what it means to be a wife, they think they know.
A wife, defines the entire scope of your ministry to your husband, not to your husband and father, not your husband and family. Under the dimension as a wife, your ministry is only to your husband. Let me use this opportunity to challenge many ladies who can keep their men a second place.
You love your father, mother and siblings, including your uncle so much, that everything you do to your husband, you do it to everyone else, you are not a wife.
That dimension of being a wife is the dimension that create an office for the man to feel like the man in your life, that is the dimension that bring the king out that man, that is the dimension that you will let the man knows, he is not like other men. You are exclusive and I demonstrate it in every way possible, by meeting your emotional needs. By looking physically attractive for you.
By now, I know you are aware that physical attraction means a lot to men. If you are not aware, you are hearing it now. I'm not talking of nudity or seduction, NO but I've so men depressed over their wives. They just got married, 5 to 10 years, the woman is looking as if she's 60 years old. She does not care, she has thrown away her wifehood, because she think she's giving birth to plenty children and the man is frustrated. He look at another lady who is 10 times older than her, and she's looking young and beautiful.
Please don't play games with men, let me tell you, any man, whether rich or poor, a lady was wired by God to make a man feel like a man. If you don't do it, it's because of negligence, not because you have not been equipped. And that has nothing to do with seduction, from physical outlook, let the man be proud of you.
THREE THINGS THAT DEFINE YOUR WIFEHOOD:
(1) Treat Him like a King.
Are you a Wife? When was the last time you made the man God sent to you feel like a King.
In every man, there is a King, it takes a wife to bring that king out. Don't take the quietness in him for a fool, you slap and insult him, and he keeps quite does not mean he's fool.
There is a lion in every man, and there is a lamb in every man. Hide the lion in him by being a good and respectful wife.
Don't take the generosity of any man for granted. Many married women has taking their husband for granted, they do not exalt that king dimension. Many ladies are embarrass to be wives because it takes submission to be a good wife.
(2) Mother.
A mother is the maker of the house. The keyword under motherhood is sacrifice. There are many ladies have paid the price to be wives. They can give any guy the kind of love he wants. They cook for the guy, they can do anything but they are not mother's.
Ladies, I challenge you to have an elderly woman in your life, who will not feel embarrassed to teach you motherhood.
A man can build a house but it takes a woman to make a home. A man cannot make a home.
A home talks of the emotional climate creating the conducive atmosphere for the love, the conducive atmosphere for unity, the conducive atmosphere for progress and peace is the responsibility of a woman.
What classified motherhood:
- Your Kitchen.
They are many ladies, you dress well but your kitchen is a mess. You maybe a good wife but you are not a mother.
- Your Toilet.
Listen, there are some responsibilities that are not for men. Don't let anyone deceive you. If you see him doing it, he's doing it out of love. He won't do it forever.
- Your living Room.
And many mother's don't train their children. How many ladies get up in the morning, and know that part of their assignment is to make sure that their room are clean.
If you are unwilling to learn good things right now, you are not a mother.
When there is no heart of sacrifice, you are not a mother. Because a good mother will inconvenience herself. A good mother will protect the image of the father and the husband.
A good mother does not want glory for herself. Her proud is that her husband and children are lifted, even at the her expenses.
(3) Every Woman Is A Priest
If there is no man in your life, you must still perform that role of priesthood. Every Woman should have an altar of prayer for her husband and family.
A true priest is the one who can stand and pray for her husband.
A lot of men has Ignore the priestly roles if their wives to their detriment. As a woman, is your duty to intercede for your husband and children to avoid the tricks of the enemies over your family.
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