Marriage is a union and commitment between two people.
Marriage is meant to be forever journey, not for short journey.
Marriage is the gateway for fruitfulness and multiplication.. what do I mean by multiplication? What I mean is for productive. for example, having children, creating wealth for the generation that is coming.
The number of divorce increases every day because there is lack of good teaches of good marriage.
A lot of us see marriage as a moment of superiority and control. Marriage is officiate to bring a long last family and togetherness.
Tips To Avoid Divorce in Marriage.
(1) Let God Be The Center of Your Home.
When God is the center of your marriage, you will always overcome temptations that will attract divorce in the future.
Taking God away from your marriage is like taking peace and blessings away from your family.
(2) Mutual Understanding
The recent martial life lack understanding, because of social ideology and misconception.
Some spouse draw their understanding from wrong spouse who pretend to have understanding outside but lack understanding inside.
As a married couple, always have understanding among each other to have a beautiful home.
(3) Helping Each Other.
Some spouse don't help each other.
As married man, I help my wife in doing some house chores, when I see she's very tired. Don't be like does men that don't help their wife because of pride. Having this mentality of superior, while you make your wife an interior.
Helping each other in times of difficulties will beautifier your home and future.
A lot of broken home because of lack of helping each other in times of needs. Don't oppress your wife or husband because you have money more than him or her. Before you married him or her, you agree to stand with each other, even in times of difficulties.
(4) Listen To Each Other.
They won't be happy and safe home when both spouse don't listen to each other.
Learn to listen to each other to build a peaceful home. Divorce came in when we don't listen to each other.
FOR MEN: Listen to your wife, women has this strong instinct. They say things that can be annoying but it will bring safety and peace when we listen.
FOR WOMEN: Every man love obedient and respectful woman. Learn to listen to your husband when he says things that will bring peace at home.
(4) Learn To Apologize.
Am very sorry honey, forgive me has save a lot of marriage.
No sorry or forgive me has cause increase in divorce in our society.
When a home lack the spirit of apology, divorce become an option. Don't be heart locker when you offend your spouse. Accept your mistakes to have peace in your family.
No body went to say sorry or forgive when they offend the each other. They want to receive the first apology before they will apologize.
You should learn to apologize to your spouses to have a wonderful home, and teach your children to build a future home.
(5) Saying No Pride.
One of the greatest enemy of good and Godly marriage is pride.
When pride is living among couples, it makes their home a quite and war zone. Pride destroy home because no one wants to be spoke to or listen to one another.
Be the proud of your husband or wife outside, not living in pride inside.
(6) Communication
Communication is one of the best and beautiful moment in marriage. No body wants to marry a boring person, no matter how beautiful you are. Learn to build a communicable family. It's bring happiness and joy, and it's avoid divorce and broken home.
(7) Avoid Wrong Advise From Third Party.
Wrong adviser has gradually destroy beautiful home. Especially social media adviser. No marriage is perfect but you need to make perfect by understanding and loving each other. Also building your marriage in a godly way.
The best advise you can receive is the one you give to yourself.
When the situations beyond you, seek for an advise from an elderly man or woman who has a respectful family.
(8) Prayer.
Prayer is the key to lock the spirit of pride, misunderstanding, lack of communication and to avoid wrong adviser.
A family that prayers together, stay together.
Devil does not like happy family. So, Prayer block his activities in our home.
Pray when the situations is beyond you.
In Conclusion
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