Being a good and wonderful parents is one of the sweetest thing but difficult to handle.
A good parents is the key that open a great doors and opportunities for their children to have a wonderful future without compromise or obstacle.
Parents are the beauty of home, examples and books of their children's future. When a child did wrong or disrespect his or her seniors, the parents face the shame and mockery, because people think, there is no proper home training from the parents.
As a parent, you need to build the bridge that will help your children to walk on without falling, without failing in life.
The joy of every good parents, I mean parents that are prepared is to see their children be great and be impactful in life. But when you lack the quality and the quantity of being a good parents, their future of your children become shameful, instead of long lasting successful.
A good parents should be the one that help his children to define their future and dreams. A good parents should be the one that build their home to to his children, and even other people children to stand up in life through showing a good examples.
6 Keys That Make You A Good Parents
In this five keys that makes you a good parents, I will explain in details things you need to do to create an atmosphere of peace and joy in your family as a parent.
(1) Love
Love is powerful tools to build a good family.
Where there is no love, there is no peace and harmony. The home become like a grave yard. Always silent and boring.
No family grows without love. No children excel without the love of his or her love.
A good parents should love his or children without regret. Your love as a parent conquer the fear of their children towards you. They ask you a sensible and respectful questions without fear of beating or shouting at them.
A good parents should not love one and despise another. The love should be all your children, even your step or adopted child.
(2) Respect
Do you know a lot of parents don't have respect for their children. Respect to their opinion or things they feel is not for them. Some children has this instinct when things is not going right at home.
A good parent, who wants his or her home to be lovely and wonderful should sometimes as their children for their opinion on some family affair, to get knowledge from it. Don't say, he or she don't know anything. Children are fast in learning.
Every parents should respect their children privacy. Give them some respect to have peace in the family. Lack of respect from parents has make a lot of children to be mess around, having no destination. Doing wrong things they love, walking in the way of destruction.
Respect your children, their dreams. Correct them in love and respect, not in anger and pain.
(3) Observation
Do you know some parents don't observe your children. They are too busy to check up on your children. If he or she is doing great or not in school, if he or she is health wise, if he or she is hanging around with bad friends. No observation on their behavior.
Every good and great parents check up on their children, ask them questions often to know what is their state of mind and health. And the kind of friends they keep.
To be a good parents, you need to be observant at home. Don't be to too busy and less concern to your children and their activities. Give them that quality time their needs from you as a parent. It will help them to stay away from trouble. It will help them to stand out and be the best in everything they do.
(4) Responsibility
Every good parents is responsible for his or her children attitude, activities and character.
Some parents are irresponsible, in times of take good care of their children. They do things that is not meant to be do as a parent. You don't push your children to destruction, you help them to overcome it.
Responsibility should be taking serious in our home to have a better future and wonderful family.
When you lack the act of responsibility, you stand a chance to lose the credibility as a good parents.
Take full responsibility of your children welfare and lifestyle. Make sure your children did not learn any wrong attitude from you as a parent. Let them be proud of you as good father or mother.
(5) Avoid Discrimination
There is this ideology, maybe culture in some family, father or mother so much love one or two of child, that he despise others. Do you know, it create an atmosphere of hatred and separation among your children. No love or understanding among them. It takes away peace and happiness in the family, and it will affect them in the future.
Discrimination or self choosing should not come in your family. Love, respect and do things to them equally, until they are matured enough.
A good parent should be the one that see his or her children happy and joyful always.
(6) Teacher
Every parent is a good and best teacher to their children.
You teach them things that they need to know as a child, things that will help them to be matured, great things that will not leave their memory. Things that will beautifier their future. Teach them to always win and grab every great opportunity that will help their dreams.
Good parent should be a great mentor and a role model to their children.
Your lifestyle, speech and character should be the class room to sit and learn.
NB: A Good Parents is not the one that has his own children but the one who care and love children, A school teacher or lecture is a parent to the pupils he or she teaches.
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